Vietnam 7 - Blessing our Hoi An house
There are flowers lining the sidewalks as
people purchase these for their homes.
As well it seems kumquat trees are popular and showing up on sidewalks
and in front of houses.
Our house is a new build, and we are the first people to
live here. Our landlords are Buddhists,
as are many, if not most, Vietnamese.
This week we were thrilled to watch our home being blessed.
Our landlords set up a table in front of the house, in the small
courtyard so not right on the sidewalk.
It was laden with a variety of foods, only some of which we
recognized. There was meat (pork),
prepared and stuffed bitter melon, a Tet rice cake, platter of fruit etc. There was also incense being burned in two
ways – one was the classic sticks that we are all familiar with and the other
was in a bowl.
Additionally, they restocked and straightened up the small
shrine area in our kitchen including adding fresh flowers.
The landlord himself prayed at what, by this time, was an
altar while the incense smoked around him.
His wife stayed with us, sitting in the living area. Once he was done he took the incense bowl and
walked through the house from room to room.
Then our landlady and her daughter cleared and removed the
table and the paper structure was burned in a smallish burning bin on the
sidewalk in front of the house. This
paper structure was for Buddha. There was also some fake paper money there and some paper
clothing . These were burned to send
them to their ancestors.
Once all was done we were invited to their home for
lunch. So were quite a few other
people! It turns out that there are
quite a few family members and we recognized several of them because they run
businesses in the neighbourhood. The
lady who cleaned our house once was there (no idea if she is a friend or a
relative) and so was the woman who served us at the coffee shop that very
morning.
Lunch was spread in small plates along a grass mat on the
floor and we sat around it, rice bowl in hand, digging in. There was also rice paper wrappers available and water to dip them in to soften. We could then fill and wrap to our heart's content. There were 15 or 16 people there in total,
from 5 years old to 88. No question we
looked the most awkward sitting on the floor.
Even the 88 year old was more limber though she was sitting on a sort of wooden couch. It seems a lifetime of movement
has many advantages. Lunch was
delicious, as expected. We really like
Vietnamese food. The food that had been
on the table/altar in our courtyard was brought into our house and tucked into
the refrigerator.
All in all a totally amazing day.
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